What’s The Deal Here?

Listen, I’m not an expert, I didn’t go to school for this stuff, I truly just decided to make the decision to work towards living my life in a more positive light. I am just here to help ya see that if you are going through it, you aren’t alone, we’ve all been there. Just don’t give up on yourself, YOU CAN SAVE YOURSELF and it does get better, when YOU make it better!

For years, I was a sad girl. I had the mentality that life sucked and that’s all there was to it, but the reality was, I was choosing that life for myself. My self esteem was minimal and I accepted much less than I deserved in many situations, I was a mean girl and kind of a miserable b****, I spent money on stupid shit, the list really goes on but the bottom line, I wasn’t taking the trash out of my life and making the positive steps to change my life, I was more so just sitting in the dumpster. Your twenties just kinda suck as a life era because you don’t fully understand what you are meant to do in the world and some of your friends are getting married and having babies and then your other friends are getting drunk at least five days a week so finding your place in the middle was HARD.

While yes, twenties are hard, I made them harder for myself than they needed to be. If I would have learned how to love myself sooner and romanticize the relationship with myself more and applied boundaries then my twenties would have looked a lot different. Are there some things I wish didn’t happen? Absolutely. Did I learn valuable lessons from all my f*** ups? ABSOLUTELY. I wouldn’t change it for the world. I have come so far in my journey and I continue to grow each and every day!

I don’t know what I want to do with my life or what I want to be when I grow up. I recently quit my “big girl” job to take a chance on myself and figure out my next steps. My future husband (we are actually engaged, this isn’t a fantasy man) owns a tattoo shop and we want to do more with selling vintage clothes and other fun little things so I am going to work on that and start selling plants out of our shop! Come with me on my journey of healing, find some new hobbies, we can trauma bond a little! Feel free to leave comments about what you felt was helpful on your healing journey! Remember, be kind. 🙂